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A little insight from our very own Wedding & Events Manager Clare, who has a few tips and tricks to ensure you have the day you’ve been dreaming of.
At The Alverton, weddings are as much about the quiet in-between moments as they are about the grand ones. Our Wedding & Events Manager, Clare Buckler, has guided countless couples through their special day with calm confidence, a kind heart, and an unflappable ability to make everything feel effortless. Here, she shares a few things she wishes every couple knew before saying “I do”.
“The day passes in a beautiful blur,” Clare says. “Couples can be so busy greeting guests that they barely spend a moment together. I always encourage them to sneak away, even briefly, for a precious pause – just the two of you – to take it all in.”
For grooms especially, Clare has one simple piece of advice: don’t hold back. “When you see your partner walking down the aisle, it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed. Tears are part of the magic – and don’t forget to tell them how wonderful they look.”
Being calm under pressure is essential, but so is kindness. “You need to keep a level head, but also have a laugh with guests to ease nerves,” Clare explains. “We once had a florist mix up the year and no flowers arrived. A quick trip to the shops and we made bouquets ourselves – the bride never had to worry.”
When it comes to the menu, Clare believes couples should always follow their hearts — and their appetites. “It’s your wedding meal. Choose your favourite dishes. Guests will remember how personal it felt, and it should be something you truly enjoy.”
One unforgettable wedding involved a four-legged ring bearer in a bow tie. “He was meant to trot gracefully down the aisle,” Clare laughs. “Instead, he greeted every guest, then sprinted straight to the bride. He completely stole the show – it was pure joy.”
Clare’s advice is simple: invest in a great photographer. “These are memories you’ll look back on for the rest of your lives. Trust your photographer – they know how to capture you naturally.”
“One of the biggest advantages is having everything in one place,” Clare says. “No transport worries, no weather stress, and you can stay the night before. At The Alverton, we’ll bring breakfast to your room so the morning feels calm and pampered. And our Great Hall is truly unique – it’s the closest you’ll get to a church without being in one.”
Perhaps the loveliest part? Returning. “Couples can come back for anniversaries, sunny afternoon drinks, or a special overnight stay. We love being part of their story, long after the wedding day.”
“Weddings are one of life’s most meaningful milestones,” Clare reflects. “It’s a privilege to turn someone’s dream into reality – and to witness that joy is something I never take for granted.”
If you’re dreaming of your own wedding day at The Alverton, our dedicated team would love to hear from you. Get in touch to arrange a relaxed chat or a private show round of our beautiful spaces, and let’s begin planning something truly unforgettable together.
The Alverton is a breath-taking venue in Truro for weddings, events and conferences. Centrally located in the Cornish capital, with parking for up to 140 guests.
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