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Clare’s Top Tips For Planning Your Wedding Day

Our wonderful Wedding and Events Manager Clare gives us a sneak peak into some of her top tips when it comes to planning your wedding day.

From selecting your location to choosing your menu and remembering to savour the little things throughout the day, Clare's helped to make many dream weddings a reality. If you're just beginning to plan your big day, take a look at some of her top tips to get you started.

How to decide on your dream wedding venue

I believe celebrating your special day at a hotel is the ideal choice. With everything in one location, you can avoid the hassle of transport and stay the night before your wedding, free from worries about the unpredictable Cornwall weather. Enjoy a relaxing morning with a delicious room service breakfast as you unwind and prepare for the day. Plus, our Great Hall offers a unique setting, giving you the feeling of being in a church without actually being in one.

The best part? You’re welcome to return to your wedding venue whenever you like—whether for a drink on a sunny afternoon or a romantic anniversary stay. We love welcoming couples back and being part of their cherished memories.

Finding the perfect menu choices

It’s your special day, so make sure to choose the food options that you absolutely love. While your guests’ preferences are important, remember that this is your wedding meal—it’s a moment for you to indulge in your favorite dishes. Even if some of your guests might not be as enthusiastic about your choice, it’s only one meal, and ultimately, it’s about celebrating your tastes and making the day truly yours. This is a once-in-a-lifetime occasion, so don’t hesitate to pick what makes you happiest.

On finding the right photographer for you

Make sure to invest in a skilled photographer—this is one area where cutting corners is not worth it. The photos from your wedding will capture moments you’ll treasure for the rest of your life, so it’s important to choose someone who can truly bring your vision to life. Trust the photographer’s expertise; they have the experience to know exactly how to capture those beautiful, fleeting moments in the best possible way. The investment you make now will give you timeless memories to look back on and share for years to come.

Looking for your ideal hotel wedding planner

You need to meet with them in person, and find someone who is kind, calm and knowledgeable. This is one of the biggest days of your life, and you’re going to want someone you can trust at the helm to make sure your big day goes smoothly. This person will be able to give you important advice on an industry that they know a lot about. But, the most important thing, is that you get on well with them, so that first meeting is crucial!

Advice for the bride

Be sure to steal a few quiet moments alone with your new partner on your wedding day. The day will fly by, and with so much time spent socializing with guests, you might not get the chance to fully connect with each other. Make it a priority to sneak away for some precious, uninterrupted time together.

Also, enjoy the planning process—staying organized will help minimize any stress on your big day, allowing you to focus on the joy and excitement of the celebration.

Advice for the groom

Don’t be afraid to let the tears flow when you see your partner walking down the aisle—emotions are a natural part of the day. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed when you get that first look at the love of your life on your wedding day. Just remember to take a moment to tell them how beautiful they look, and savour that emotional moment.

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